Josh Play Gay Not Quite a motss.con xvi (via Zoom)

On Saturday, June 3, 2023, the soc.motss.con bunch had another Zoom call.

We had nine people over the course of the 100 minutes or so I was there (though never more than eight camera feeds at a time). I had fun catching up, and it seemed like others did too. Discussion topics (as I wrote them down, but not necessarily in chronological order) included:
  • Greetings, welcome, and general settling in
  • Administrivia, co-hosting
  • Fame and children of famous parents
  • Meeting in meat space (and history and FaceSaver)
  • Tattoos
  • Transferring data off old media (VHS tapes)
  • Moving and bedbugs
  • Dog names
  • Wordle streaks
  • Television theme songs performed by the actors in it: examples:
    • All in the Family
    • Any Day Now
    • Frasier
    • The Love Boat
  • Parents and motsseurs on Jeopardy
  • Friends on that and other game shows
  • What to wear (and not to wear) on television
  • Sports growing up
  • Myths that aren't true
  • Jokes:
    • What does a lesbian bring on the second date? A U-Haul.
    • What does a gay man bring on the second date? What's a second date?)
  • What was the most serious discussion on soc.motss?
    • Christmas bell (and religious arguments therefrom)
    • Monogamy
  • motssers of days gone by
  • Do good people really sleep well at night? Do bad people?
  • Why do people say "sleep like a baby" when babies don't sleep well?
  • Crime and prevention
  • Dog park renovations
  • Selling portraits of the dog park dogs in a book to fund the renovations
  • Cities and their downtown areas... and city centers called things other than "downtown" (such as "uptown" or "oldtown")
  • How many people does it take for a city to have a downtown?
  • Downtown versus municipal and commercial areas
  • Urban areas, urban renewal, suburbs, and bedroom communities
  • Pens and substitutes (embroidering a note, using blood instead of ink, etc.)
  • Multiple phones and unused lines
  • Requiring smartphones for certain tasks (such as controlling appliances or visiting the White House)
  • Pets throwing parties when we're not there
  • Buildings' age, bugs (especially bedbugs and cockroaches), gnats, and other infestations
  • Temper, losing control, explosive disorder, crossing (and not crossing) boundaries, and limits within fighting
  • Socializing children (and gender roles and dysphoria)
  • Sports versus gay sports (especially regarding boxing, figure skating, football, rubgy, swimming and diving, tennis, wrestling), and sportsball (mainly as a term used by people who don't care about sports), and whether certain sports count as or are considered to be "gay"
  • People's intersection with the criminal justice system (criminals, judges, jurors, lawyers, police, etc.), including security clearances
Zoom participants, left to right and top to bottom: Max Vasilatos, Josh Simon, Arnold Zwicky, Dennis Lewis, Joel Levin, Dennis Lewis' phone, Tom Limoncelli, Leroy Dominique's ceiling, Ken Rudolph, and Jack Hamilton

Last update Jun03/23 by Josh Simon (<jss@clock.org>).